Cathy, (not her real name) a coaching client, wanted support to overcome some inner resistance she was feeling about moving her new business forward. A couple of weeks into the coaching process, a personal crisis erupted in her relationship with her significant partner. She felt she needed to end the relationship and would have to shelve the new business for a while.
Cathy said that she has never been able to "stand up for herself" in a relationship. Over and over she has found herself in the same unrelenting cycle: unable to talk about aggravating incidents and behaviours and then tolerating and stewing about them until they became unbearable. Eventually, she would feel like the only solution would be to end the relationship. And now it was happening once again. She was acutely aware of her repetitive pattern: It upset her, but she just didn't know how to change it even though she wanted to.
We talked about LOA - and it resonated with her. I offered her some tools - the T-Tool, Raising Vibration Statements, and using the Emotional Scale to reach for a better thought-feeling.
It was a really tough week for her with other serious issues arising as well. However, she persisted. She used the tools, several times. And, she noticed that it was essential to sit down and do the writing, not just think about it.
To her surprise, she easily and calmly confronted her partner and was able to tell him what she needed in the relationship. Her clarity and openness also helped him to speak openly and calmly about where he was coming from. For the first time, they were able to communicate in a way that that allowed them to break the destructive pattern which was leading to their separation. And, the best part is that Cathy is feeling better about her partner than she has in a long time.
Knowing how to deliberately reach for a better thought-feeling has been a life changing discovery for Cathy (and me too). It is truly liberating to learn that we are capable of changing our vibrations to more positive ones, to have the tools to do so, and to change what we are attracting into our lives.
Cathy is now back at moving her business forward with renewed enthusiasm and energy.
Copyright (c) 2008 Rebecca Hanson
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Rebecca Hanson is the Founder of the Law of Attraction Training Center. She is a natural teacher and mentor to students from around the world. Learn how you can apply the Law of Attraction to have a fuller more enriching life through the 65-hour audio course, Certified Law of Attraction Practitioners' Program, Learn about the next teleclass offered in "A Year of Miracles," with Rebecca Hanson at LawofAttractionCatalog.com.
